Recordeu que, quan perdoneu, us cura. I quan deixes anar, creixes. - Desconegut
When someone has made a mistake or behaves ill with you, that’s not what you should be repeating with them. Remember that the strength of an individual lies in forgiving others.
You should not hold on to the things that they have done. Instead, you should focus on giving them the best you ever can, as that will eventually heal you. You can never stay happy with a lot of grudges in your heart. As you forgive, you will be healing yourself from within!
You heal when you give happiness to others. You should let go off the mistakes that they have done, for they could not be undone. Hence, you should keep it aside and try to normalize things around you. Love them as they deserve and try to move ahead in your life.
As you let go off, you start growing! Life is all about ups and downs. You can never cling onto just one thing, as that will continue being your reasons for sorrow.
Remember that each and everything that occurs in your life is meant to bring experiences for you. When you forgive, you heal, and when you let go off, you grow! All these experiences keep counting as they together help you grow through your life.
The ‘ups’ give you happiness, while the ‘downs’ are meant to give you lessons for life. Hence, you should count your bad experiences, and instead of clinging onto it, you must let it go.
As you let go, you give yourself a chance to move ahead. This also allows you to give others a chance to rectify themselves and do their best.